Wednesday, July 28, 2010

We don't choose...

We don't choose....
We don't choose anything in our life.. right from the birth to our death...



We can't choose to be the person we are...
We can't choose our parents...
We can't choose our destiny...
We can't choose the way we look.. our color.. our height.. our structure..
We can't choose our caste... our sex..

But looks do matter.
Religion does matter... Caste does matter.. Region does matter..

Telgu tamil malayali maharashtrian bengali gujrathi...
these are the sections that are prominiently built by us...
Dark girl.. Fair chick...
Mindblowing personality... Ugly monkey..
Lower caste... Upper caste... Minority...
these are the barriers that we make..

Fair girls are wannabes...
Handsome hunks are choosen over other guys...

Why? why? why?

Why cant we just get over this stupid prejudice...
And try to gel with the "non-choosen" ones.


Cultural differnces are again really tough to handle...
Firstly you have language problems..
then there is a huge difference in general behaviour ..
A gesture which is normal in one region might be rude in another?
People get offended by such small things and stop mingling...
They will rather stick to their own section than trying to understand them...

Its just that the tolerance level has gone really really down...
Nobody wants to come out of their comfort zone and take some efforts to explore a new area...
Nobody wants to step down from their ego mountain and listen!
Nobody wants to be considerate enough and give a chance...

Next time you ignore or not talk to a person just because
he/she is not so good looking or attractive or not your type..
please think once that the face that you have got..
the external beauty that you posses...
the upper hand that you have got is not something that you have earned!
Its just a gift from someone very special up there...

Outer Beauty vanishes with time!
So be grateful and make sure to keep the inner beauty intact...

Because The more you come closer to a person...
its Not face to face..
But its between your heart and his...